I don't know if anyone answered you or not but since your query is still there, I will answer.

1860 Doniphan County Census
Jones,
Jesse W 23 Farmer TENN
Mary 20 MD
Jesse 3 KS
Mary 8/12 KS

1870 Doniphan County Census

Jones,
Jesse W 43 m W Farmer Tenn
Mary 38 f w hsewfe Ind
Jesse 13 m w Ks
Wilburn 7 m w student KS
William 5 m w KS
Harry 4 m w KS
James 2 m w KS
John 1/12 m 2 KS

1880 Doniphan County Census

Jones
Jesse w m 25 Farmer KS KY KY
L J w f 21 wife IL IN IN
Mary M w f 2 dtr KS KS IL
Oscar w m 2m son KS KS IL
James w m 11 brother KS KY IN
Mitchell w m 8 brother KS KY IN
Clinton w m 2 brother KS KY IN
King,Henry w m 26 farmhand MO VT OH

Nov 2, 1876, Jesse Jones, Jr, 23 married
Julia King, 19 in Highland, Doniphan County, Kansas.

No stones in the cemeteries for these names and dates, that doesn't mean they are not buried there, there just is no longer a stone standing.

Good Luck.

Speedy