Larry,
I want to give you a website that has tombstone pictures.
It may help you to find where he is buried.
http://userdb.rootsweb.com/volunteers/
Look around on here and maybe you can find something that will help.
Also, here is an email address of a lady who organizes tombstone pics and post them on the web..
peggyhooper@charter.net
She might be able to help you too.
Good luck!
Debra